10 cultural habits in the Netherlands that surprise Expats
It all begins with an idea.
🇳🇱 Welcome to the Netherlands — Where Everyday Life Comes with a Few Surprises
Moving to the Netherlands is an exciting adventure, but beyond the bikes and tulips, Dutch culture has its own unique quirks that often surprise newcomers.
Here are 10 cultural habits that expats notice (and eventually grow to love!) when settling into Dutch life.
☕ 1. “Koffietijd” Is Sacred
Coffee isn’t just a drink here; it’s a daily ritual.
The Dutch take their koffietijd (coffee time) seriously, often accompanied by a cookie or slice of cake. Don’t be surprised if a meeting or friendly visit starts with “Would you like some coffee?”
🎂 2. The Famous Birthday Circle
At Dutch birthday parties, guests often sit in a circle and chat with everyone, not just the host. You’ll also be expected to congratulate everyone there (“Gefeliciteerd!”) - even the birthday person’s family!
🗣️ 3. Direct Communication Is a Virtue
The Dutch are known for being honest and straightforward.
While this can feel blunt to some expats, it’s actually a sign of respect. They value clarity and appreciate when others speak openly too.
🚲 4. Biking Is a Way of Life
From groceries to commuting, the bicycle is central to Dutch life.
You’ll see everyone cycling; rain or shine, business suit or casual wear. Owning a good bike is almost as essential as having a house key.
🍽️ 5. Dinner Starts Early
In many countries, dinner starts around 8 PM, but in the Netherlands, 6 PM is perfectly normal. Families often eat together early and wind down for the evening.
💶 6. Going Dutch (Literally)
Splitting the bill is common practice. Whether it’s dinner with friends or a coffee date, everyone pays their share. It’s not about money; it’s about fairness and independence.
🪟 7. Open Curtains, Open Culture
Many Dutch homes have wide, open windows with the curtains open for everyone to see in.
It’s a sign of transparency and trust: “We have nothing to hide.” For some expats, it takes getting used to!
📅 8. Planning Ahead — Even Socially
Want to grab a coffee with a Dutch friend? Better schedule it in advance.
Spontaneity isn’t always the norm, social calendars can fill up weeks ahead, and appointments are taken seriously.
🏖️ 9. Vacations Are Sacred Too
When it’s holiday time, the Dutch truly switch off. Work emails go unanswered, and offices can be quiet for weeks in summer. Work-life balance is not just a concept here; it’s a priority.
🌧️ 10. The Weather Talk Never Ends
Whether it’s raining, sunny, or both in the same hour, the weather is always a safe (and popular) topic.
You’ll soon find yourself checking Buienradar, the national weather app, just like the locals.
💛 Embrace the Dutch Way of Life
The Dutch may have their unique habits, but that’s what makes life here so authentic and charming.
Once you understand the rhythm of Dutch culture, you’ll find it easy to feel at home. Quirks and all.
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From housing and utilities to home setup and everyday essentials, Welcome2Holland helps you settle in smoothly, so you can focus on enjoying your new Dutch life.
How to make a temporary house feel like home (for Expats in the Netherlands)
It all begins with an idea.
🏡 Living in a temporary home doesn’t mean it can’t feel like yours
Many expats in the Netherlands start out in short-term housing. A rental, shared apartment, or company-provided home.
It may not be permanent, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be comfortable and personal. With a few thoughtful touches, you can create a cozy space that feels truly your own.
✨1. Choose Furniture That Fits Your Life — Not Just the Space
If you’re staying for a few months or a couple of years, flexibility matters.
Pick furniture that’s functional, durable, and easy to move or reuse.
Tip: With services like Welcome2Holland, you can select furniture packages that suit your style and budget. All delivered, assembled, and ready to use on day one.
🌿2. Add Warmth with Textures and Lighting
Nothing transforms a space faster than soft textiles and warm light.
Add curtains, cozy throws, and a rug to instantly make your room more inviting.
Warm-toned lamps or candles can make evenings feel calm and homey, even if your stay is temporary.
🖼️ 3. Make It Personal
Bring a few small items that tell your story; photos, books, or souvenirs from home.
Even in furnished housing, a few personal details make a big emotional difference.
They remind you that wherever you are, you belong there.
🪴 4. Bring Nature Indoors
Dutch homes often have large windows and plenty of light; perfect for plants.
Add a few green friends to your space, they make your home feel alive and fresh.
Even a small potted plant or herbs in the kitchen can lift your mood.
🚲 5. Keep It Simple and Easy to Maintain
A temporary home should feel peaceful, not like another task list.
Avoid clutter and choose furniture that’s easy to clean or multifunctional.
💛 Settle In, Even If It’s Temporary
Home isn’t just where you live. It’s where you feel comfortable.
With the right setup and a few cozy details, even a short stay in the Netherlands can feel like home.
✨ It’s the little things that turn a place to stay into a place to belong.
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Moving to the Netherlands as an Expat
It all begins with an idea.
Moving to a new country is exciting, but it can also feel overwhelming. From paperwork to furniture, there’s a lot to organize before you can truly feel at home.
This checklist will guide you step by step through your first weeks in the Netherlands and help you settle in with confidence.
✅ Before Arrival
Schedule your BSN appointment (Citizen Service Number) with your local municipality.
Arrange health insurance — it’s mandatory for all residents in the Netherlands.
Book temporary accommodation for your first days or weeks while you get settled.
🏡 Upon Arrival
Open a Dutch bank account to manage your salary, rent, and day-to-day expenses.
Register at your local municipality (“gemeente”) to receive your BSN number.
Apply for a DigiD, your digital ID for accessing most Dutch government services online.
🛋️ Within 2 Weeks
Set up your home and make it comfortable from day one.
Tip: Choose a service like Welcome2Holland, which delivers, assembles, and installs your furniture and household equipment, so your new space is move-in ready without the hassle.
🚲 After 1 Month
Explore your neighbourhood — find local shops, parks, and community spots.
Get an OV-chipkaart for easy travel on all Dutch public transport.
Enjoy your first bike ride! It’s the best way to experience everyday life in the Netherlands.
💡 Bonus Tip
Make your house feel like home. It’s the little things that turn a place to stay into a place to belong.